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Factorsleading to success:
-initial interest because she wanted to learn English
-selection of good venue to take her to
-touching her strongly on the arm immediately upon meeting at the station
-not letting her steal the frame (not making it an "English lesson")
-demonstrating personality and passion through stories
-getting her to elicit the racy/romantic parts of the story from me, ratherthan pushing them on her
-overcoming last-minute-resistanceto sex by persisting relentlessly with a wide variety of methods

So I met this hairstylist girl with really big cute eyes (kinda like an animegirl) at one of those international parties in Shibuya. As is pretty common in Japan, she wasinterested from the outset, but only because she wanted me to teach herEnglish.

At the party I just got her number and email uneventfully and we set up the nextmeet by email with no problem, with her saying "please teach meEnglish!" I never directly replied to that line, because I didn¡Çt want tobox myself into the role of her English teacher. I also didn¡Çt refuse to teachher English, because that might¡Çve lowered the chances of her meeting me sincethat was her motivation for meeting me at that time. Ignoring rather thanrefusing is a common and powerful technique. In Japan you can use language andcultural misunderstandings to make this easier, so the technique becomes anintegral part of your everyday toolbox.

We met at the station and I immediately touched her on the arm strongly when Igreeted her, very casually and relaxedly, without looking at my hand,maintaining solid and friendly eye contact. This is something I always do whenI meet a chick for an arranged meeting, because it establishes that "that’sjust the kind of person I am" (so all touching afterward is congruent) and"I am a sexual being" (Japanese guys never do this, but it¡Çs acceptedbecause you are foreign). I took her to my "surefire lay"restaurant/bar near my place (if you don’t have a venue like this, find one!)and spoke in easy English at first to satisfy her desire to learn.

We made small talk a bit while she relaxed and got used to my English voice,because I was going to need her to understand the stories I was about to startinto.

I never launch into a story myself; I always wait until they ask me one of thekey questions that Japanese people invariably ask, and get them to elicit mystories in the course of trying to get that key question answered. Here’s howit works in practice:

J-chick:So, why did you come to Japan?(they ALWAYS ask this)
Amanojack: Well, it all started when I was in high school, at the junior prom.(This is bait: Japanese girls have this super-romantic image of high schoolproms, and press me to talk about it more every time I mention it.)

I go into my favorite attraction/romance/personality/passion story, whichproduces in her thatwide-eyed look like how a dog looks at you when you¡Çre holding its food bowl.This happens 90% of the time I take a girl to this venue and tell the exactsame story to every chick, so nothing interesting is happening so far. She¡Çsjust feeling this unexpected attraction toward me like I anticipated, and I readthe situation well enough to be able to see the first chance I have to go forthe kiss. The signs I see are: she holds eye contact for longer, when Ipronounce ¡ÈW¡É sounds she glances down at my lips, she doesn¡Çt pull away when Iget close, and she reciprocates my casual touching.

So I testfor the kiss using the earlobe by talking close to her ear and letting my lipsbrush against it as I talk (while I¡Çm massaging her shoulders from behind),modulating my voice deeper and slower. She doesn’t move away at this point so Iknow it¡Çs time for the kiss. Again, this is all routine, nothing out of the ordinary.After a few short French kisses in the bar, I say "let’s go" andstart walking to take her home. This part is routine and not worth going intobecause it’s the same as most other lays I’ve had in Japan.

Where it gets interesting: I get her home and we’re making out, but she’sputting up MASSIVE resistance to the clothes coming off! OK, this is myspecialty - time to pull out all the tools in the Amanojack last-minute-resistance(LMR: resistance put up by a chick who is horny for you but having sex with youis against her better judgment) busting toolbox!

LMR breaker 1: POWER UP!! Already making out, so just make out more, up themomentum, up the energy, up the passion, focus more on kissing her well, changetouching escalation patterns,and see how far you get. Really focus on what is so hot about her so you canreally get into it like a wild animal swept away by passion. This leads me tothe tits, and I have a rule: if I can lick BOTH nipples the lay is in the bag.But this time I only got to lick ONE nipple before she stopped me. Uh-oh, timefor…

LMR breaker 2: THE BACKDOOR PATH!! Strangely enough, in Japan generally the ass and anusdon’t really count as sexual parts, and some girls will let you touch their assall the way down to her crack, and then if you go the extra inch around back toher pussy she’s like "Hey! You tricked me, I didn’t think you could reachmy pussy from there!" Sure enough, I tried it and got a brief touch ofpussy – it felt like warm juicy pudding!! She enjoyed it for a brief secondbecause she was too surprised to stop me, but then she got control of herself,pulled me away and started saying, "Let’s just go to sleep." But Iain’t havin’ that…

LMR breaker 3: THE EARLOBE BLITZ!! Remember this amazing and very useful fact:earlobe stimulation can temporarily but completely remove a woman’s will toresist for a few seconds. If you can stimulate her earlobe to the point whereshe gets shivers in her body, you can suddenly touch her ANYWHERE and she won’tresist. It’s a power point like no other…except the clitoris! This isAmanojack’s earlobe-clit blitz technique, perfected over several years.

You open the resistance window for a few seconds at a time, getting your handnear her pussy the first time, then pulling your hand away as the windowcloses. Reopen the window a few seconds later with more ear stimulation, putyour hand on her panties and rub her pussy through them (or come in through the¡Èbackdoor¡É). Next time the window opens slide your hand in and rub directly.Next two windows rub the clit directly. Once you have a few seconds of goodstimulation of the clit, it is usually game over (depends on your skill there,too, so practice your hand skills to perfection on any girls you get the chancewith - this alone will increase your success rate!).

This girl is about to explode, but something was keeping her from fucking, eventhough she was juicing herself and my bed like crazy. Some memory from thepast, not wanting to look like a slut, hoping for a romantic relationshipinstead of a sexual one, or just trying to keep to her word that she wouldn’tfuck tonight. She knows she is too horny for her own good, as I found outlater, and she is used to using her willpower to keep stuff from happening. Heragenda and my agenda collided, and her agenda was winning in spite of the factthat she was really horny right then.

This was just about the strongest LMR I’d ever seen! She was really horny, butshe could get even more horny. There is a point of horniness where resistancebecomes simply out of the question because she just wants it so badly. Thisfact is one of the pillars of seduction. The question is how to tap into herarousal response and get her to melt into a pool of horniness. Time for…

LMR breaker 4: WRESTLING!! A pattern of resistance was building up, making themood too serious and interfering with her horniness response. I realized that Iwasn’t going to make anymore progress until that resistance pattern was broken.It was time to try something totally different.

I picked her up and started spinning her around and pretending to attack herlike a play monster and bite her neck in between making out and playfully rough-handlingher. She liked this a lot, and the playful mood returned. The resistancepattern was broken. I used the monster role-playing as an excuse to strip someclothes off her while growling like a wolf in fun. Finally we were down to justunderwear, but then she knew the danger was greater and she put up even moreresistance!! All these LMR breakers are things that usually work, but this timedidn’t. She knew her own horniness response too well and was determined not togive into temptation. So near, yet so far… But I was more determined to tempther until she just decided, ¡ÈWell why not, just this once¡Ä..¡É (but it¡Çs notreally ¡Èjust this once¡É because once the precedent has been set and she has aneasy way to vent her sexual desires, it usually becomes a regular thing if youwant it to be).

LMR breaker 5: ROLE REVERSAL!! One thing that can often work is to get thechick to pleasure you. She may have an objection to you touching her pussy, butsometimes sucking the dick is OK with her. But once she’s done that you’renaturally a step closer to sex. J-chicks are of course always curious to seewhat a gaijin cock looks like, comment that it’s big, touch it to see how hardit is, etc. I deliberately pretended to enjoy her touching it more than I actuallydid, in order to encourage her. It worked, and she started lightly rubbing itwhile we made out. It gave me more leeway to touch her, and I finally got downto licking the pussy and some slight fingering, which she really liked. I’mthinking, "Aha! This girl likes insertion more than clit!" But justthen she realized if she didn’t stop me we’re gonna definitely end up fucking,and she’s still dead set on not fucking tonight.

LMR breaker 6: TAKE AWAY –> VERBAL SEDUCTION!! So I finally did the oldtake away, saying I was hungry and started eating some chocolates I had withher. She relaxed a bit, and I start talking about how the chocolate tastes sogood mixed with her pussy juices that were still on my fingers, now facing slightlyaway from her, not touching her at all. Her mouth opens a bit, and I get theidea to start painting images of a sexual fantasy in her mind. I ask if she hasa fantasy, and she doesn’t tell me. She says she wants romance, so I say,"Where is romantic?" She says the beach, so I say something like,

"You mean like when you are lying on your back on the beach, feeling thewarm sand on your skin, listening to the rhythm of the waves?" I startmodulating my voice like I did before to get the wide-eyed captivated look likeshe gave me at the restaurant. I describe the physical sensations of being onthe beach in a tropical paradise. And then I mention "the man" whohappens to be there and how nice it feels as his body rubs up against hers,sliding up and down on her in the same rhythm as the waves as they slide up anddown the shore. Yes, I¡Çm milking it for all it’s worth, adding as much sensualand quasi-sexual content as I can. You¡Çd think the girl would go, ¡ÈHey, whatare you trying here,¡É but once they are captivated by the story they just can’tstop listening. You can push on with impunity. By the way, it¡Çs not necessaryto describe actual sex, because the girl will fill in the blanks in herimagination better than you ever could with your own words. Just hint at it, ordescribe the kissing in detail.

This finally brings on another round of making out as I’m describing thefantasy more and more, but we run out of communication ability as her Englishand my Japanese ability are stretched to their limits, and the fantasy sort ofstalls.

LMR breaker 6: PORNO VIDEO!!! I can see I have something here with the sexualtalk, so I try one last thing before giving up. This is radical, reserved forjust such an occasion. I do another take away and ask if she wants to watch avideo.

At this point she is insisting that "we will have sex next time, so youshould just give up tonight,¡É which sounds like a good argument, but I knowfrom experience that it is better to seal the deal than be sorry later when shebails before the next meet. So she is happy with my idea of watching a videoand asks what videos I have. Of course all I have are pornos! And since theydon’t have uncensored porn in Japan except in Shinjuku, I pull out myuncensored videos I got there and tell her this is her chance to see uncensoredstuff for the first time (I’m taking a risk here being so brash, just becausethis is a last-ditch effort). She says it’s going to be too much for her, toohardcore. But she can¡Çt help but watch it, just out of curiosity, like a mothattracted to a light bulb.

I put on the video and it’s really full on, closeup hardcore stuff (Japanesevideo), which she finds pretty disturbing but cannot take her eyes off of it,just out of shock. Finally she starts gushing about all the stuff they aredoing on the screen, and she just gets all jellylike and we start making outwith renewed passion, finally no resistance — she is hopelessly horny now, andwe fuck straight out, some of the best sex I’ve ever had. She has a great bodyand really soft pussy that seems to be meant for my cock! She continues to be agreat lay to this day, because she’s always so darn horny!

Lesson learned: persist, persist, persist! But NOT with the same techniques -keep trying different things until something works. I hope this report opened some people’seyes to the vast array of tools out there for overcoming thatlast-minute-resistance you tend to encounter right before sex. With thistoolkit and the ability to be passionate and flexible, maintaining momentum andmanaging her mental state, LMR can pretty much always be overcome.

By the way, the total time from getting her back to my apartment to finallygetting the lay was less than 2 hours, just to give you an idea of how long Ispent with each LMR breaker. Most LMR will be overcome just by having enoughpassion and kissing skill that she gets swept away by the momentum of themoment, plus knowing how to escalate kino to the breasts, down to the ass andpussy, and how and when to backup and push forward again. This is an atypicalexample of mega-LMR as far as J-chicks go, but it taught me a lot, so I thoughtothers might get something from it, too.

Sidenote: Some might question the morality of tempting a girl to do something whenshe is trying not to give into that temptation. If you feel this is somewhatshady, that’s good because it means you¡Çre not a ruffian who just wants to takeadvantage of people, but careful consideration will reveal the truth of thematter. You should seriously consider the moral issues here. I have, and I havecome to the conclusion that it is not wrong to place heavy temptation on agirl. What she in the end decides is her own responsibility. You do not forceher to do anything she doesn¡Çt want to do.

Thereason such situations come about is that the girl is looking for romance. Shewants sex, too, but she is afraid she won¡Çt get any romance if she gives up thesex too quickly. (If she doesn¡Çt want sex and is not horny, her resistance is*NOT* LMR; it is just plain no good and you have to go back a few steps and tryto build enough attraction to make her interested in you.) You might want justsex or maybe you want to make her your girlfriend or even wife. In any of thesecases your goal is the same: to have good sex with her as soon as possible.This is and always will be the surest path to make a girl fall in love with youif that’s what you want. (If you don’t want her to fall in love don’t give offromantic vibes, just keep it passionate and sexual – kinda obvious really.)

Now ifshe is determined to make you her boyfriend and you are determined to make heryour sex friend, you have a clash of agendas. This is a very common one. She¡Çsmaking her best efforts to ensure you don¡Çt have sex too fast, even if you bothreally want to. You¡Çre making your best efforts to ensure you have sex as soonas possible. Hence major friction is to be expected.

However,there is no moral issue with pursuing your agenda. Your job is to show howgreat it can be just to enjoy good sex. Her job is to show you how great it canbe to be boyfriend and girlfriend. If you get sucked into her frame and end upgoing out with her against your better judgment, no one can blame her. By thesame token, if she gets sucked into your sexual frame and ends up having wildsex with you against her better judgment, no one can blame you. You goal is togive her so much pleasure that she changes her mind about needing to be in arelationship, because before she never knew sex alone could be THIS GOOD. So doher well!!

There isnothing wrong with pursuing matters in this fashion, but you need to get thisfact clear in your mind BEFORE you encounter this situation. You cannot haveeven the slightest uncertainty about what you are doing and WHY you are doingit and why it is a good thing to be doing and NOT EVIL. Otherwise you¡Çll lackthe intensity of purpose to follow through against heavy resistance and thechick will see this and not follow your lead. She will not trust you if youhave these last minute moral qualms, and then you will get nowhere. Hopefullythis article has helped you think this through for yourself so you know whereyou stand.

Asalways, questions and comments are welcome and will be responded to. If youhave any issue with a particular girl or just in general, by all means post acomment in reply to this article or send me a mail. With your permission I¡Çllleave off your name if I choose to post your mail on the blog.

Happyhunting!

Amanojack

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